Meet Lynda Spann
Hi! I’m Lynda Spann and I’m a couples therapist and marriage coach in Pueblo, CO. And I’m passionate about helping people like you build strong, loving connections that last.
I believe that our personal relationships are where we have the potential to feel the most intense pain or the most immense pleasures in life. Relationships can cause the deepest hurt or the greatest happiness on the planet. They can also be incubators for either slow decay or steady, flourishing growth.
Can you relate? On what side of the equation do you fall?
I remember being about fifteen years old. I told my older friend and mentor, Rodney, that relationships were the single most important thing of value in life. Now, over thirty-five years later, I still believe that.
But today I understand that the thing that brings us the most magnificent potential also carries the greatest risk for devastation. As the saying goes, nobody gives us “The Manual” on how to create a happy, lasting marriage or loving partnership.
Knowing this, I’ve made it my life’s mission to figure out how to help people like you create a relationship that bring you pleasure, happiness, and ongoing growth.
I’ve been on this mission both for myself and for others seeking guidance. And the results are in: I’ve developed a system that works. I’m thrilled to say that my partner and I are the happiest couple I know.
Through couples counseling, I can help you become the happiest couple you know, too.
Leaning on my education as a student of life and of human science, I’ve developed a simple roadmap to guide you on your journey towards a successful and remarkable shared experience.
I’ll give you the navigational tools to stop the emotional roller-coaster ride and the revolving-door arguments. And I’ll teach you the skills to move along the path of a secure, happy relationship. A relationship in which you’ll continue to grow and be your authentic self, and always know that your partner has your back.
If you’re struggling with a painful, unhappy, or stagnant marriage, don’t wait another day. Let’s work together to change the course of your relationship. And if you’re dealing with the devastation of betrayal I have a special program designed to help you repair the trust and save your marriage.
If you’re single and need help to figure out how to heal from the pain of past hurt and heartbreak, I can help you too. Call me today to schedule appointment. You can reach me at (719) 544-0877.
I am so glad I made the investment of time and money to get a Doctorate in Marriage and Family Therapy. I’m not sharing this with you to “toot my own horn.” Simply, I just want to let you know that I received the very best clinical training and supervision in the world when it comes to relationships and marriage therapy.
And I didn’t stop learning after my Ph.D.
In fact, I’ve continued to study and train in new techniques over the years. I also have my EMDR with a Level 2 certification, with many years of EMDR therapy successes. Additionally, I am a Level 2 PACT Therapist. And my PACT training has had a huge, positive impact on my couples counseling work.
But honestly what’s had the biggest impact on my relationship expertise are the hundreds of couples and individuals that I’ve worked with over the past twenty-plus years. Sitting with you, hearing your stories, and watching you grow and find happiness is what has taught me the most. And I know it has made me a better therapist and relationship coach.
A Little Personal Info:
I want you to get a little sense of who I am as a person. First of all, I’m one of the most open-minded people that I know. I think that is because of how I grew up. My parents were from the USA, but worked internationally.
I was born in Uruguay, South America. And I spent many of my early years there, as well as a few years in Texas when I was a child. Also, I had the good fortune of going to international middle schools and high schools in Uruguay. In those schools I received an awesome education and I got to know other kids and teachers from all over the world.
Having these multi-cultural experiences expanded my horizons from a very early age, and for that, I am very grateful. Embracing a broad view of the world has made me not just tolerant of people’s differences, but has encouraged me to celebrate them.
Another thing about me is that I’m an avid foodie. I love eating at all types of restaurants. And I love cooking from well researched recipes as well as from my own creative imagination. I really enjoy watching shows that feature talented chefs, as well as all kinds of cooking shows. As a matter of fact, I can often be found at the gym over my lunch hour, walking on the treadmill and watching a cooking show on the Food Network. I even grow my own herbs and vegetables!
In addition, I love to hike, walk in my neighborhood and on the river trail, go to art galleries, dabble in artsy projects, listen to live music, and travel. I have an affinity for the ocean, and whenever I’m asked to think of my “happy place” it’s always the beach.
Finally, the last thing I’ll share is that I make my relationships with my family and friends a high priority, because in the end, I still believe that relationships are what matter most.
If you’re wanting to fix the problems in your relationship give me a call at (719) 544-2016. I can help!
Dr. Lynda Spann